Why is true love so hard to find?

It's not hard to find. It only exists between a mother and her child. Everything else is based on conditions. If you do this for me or if you make me feel a certain way, I love you. Once you get use to that person's energy and what it can do for you, then it is on to the next person to be "in love" with. In my opinion that "in love" stuff is a big steaming pile of boo-sit. You can fall "in love" with anybody based on the situation and the circumstances. True love is respect on steroids. That is something that only exists between mother and child and in some cases siblings.

I propose a new arrangement. Well, actually it isn't a new arrangement, but it would be making the present arrangement OFFICIAL instead of unofficial like it is now. The husband should have a mistress and the wife should have a lover. They should all live in the same house and when the husband and wife squeeze it into their schedules to actually deal with each other, both their lovers can be fucking. This way everyone is happy, right?

Before you know how much to drink...

see how much is in the glass.

Trust is like a bank account. The more deposits you make the more you can withdraw and if you haven't made any deposits, guess what? That check is going to bounce. This is my philosophy when it comes to the issue of trust. A great deal of the time it isn't the person we perceive that has "done us wrong," but instead ourselves. You can't take big gulps from a shot glass. The sooner people look and see who they are putting their trust in, the better off they will be.